A man wrote in for an advise:
Please counsel my wife to always love her husband irrespective of the situation at hand. Her love exists as long as money keeps coming.
She takes our issues to third parties, telling them all that happens in our home. And such people have not been a good influence on our marriage.
The fact that I lost my job as a banker last month and has been trying to move ahead (but had to stay away -by relocating to another state, in search of a new job, while she works in Lagos) is because I don’t want to add to her burdens, while I sort myself out.
I love her with our kids exceedingly. Those she tells our matters to have been planting negative ideas (about my absence) in her head and she falls for such by constantly insulting and accusing me.
I have never received any form of moral support (since I lost my job) from the woman I call my wife and my heart bleeds.