So many People are Considering Relationships, but they have never made up their mind on what exactly they want. If you are Considering Relationships and don’t have a clue what to do, here is a good starting point.
Earlier on in our first series of Let’s Talk Relationship: Can Christian Be In A Relationship?, We got to an understanding that –
You cannot successfully carry out a commitment or vow with some other person that the LORD has not ordained for you. It’s impossible.
We talked about our relationship with our FATHER, Our Saviour and Our Comforter who dwells in us, and how many people now view relationships (Boy/Girlfriend palaver).
Now we are going to go in-depth into relationships, as it pertains to all.
Are you Considering Relationships?
So you were in a relationship for 2 years and you call that a success even though you have broken up with the other party, you are deceiving yourself!! It’s either you are still immature and incapable of handling reality or you are just working on Ignorance…
So you like someone?!… Big wow, you really do not have to go out with everyone you like – you know. In fact, you really do not have to go out with ANYONE until you are ready for that thing called ‘Marriage’… and please don’t give me that rubbish excuse girls tell themselves…
“How do you know men if you do not go out with them?!” Crap!!… If you want to know about men: read books, study your brother and if you don’t have a brother, ask your father endless questions about men! Or better still ask GOD who is the Creator of all to give you a download of who men really are!
Errmm don’t you have guys as friends, talk to them, study them… you certainly don’t have to be in a relationship to know what men are capable of!
Ask yourself before considering relationships
Few questions you need to ask yourself before considering relationships:
- Am I old enough for this?
- Okay! Maturity doesn’t come with age, and then ask yourself: Am I matured enough for this?
- Can I handle myself not to talk about handling another person who wants to be in my life?
- How capable am I when it comes to handling break ups?
- Wait a minute! Why do I want to be in this relationship? For fun, s.e.x or because I am being led to it?
- Could it be because I want to be like my friends?
- Am I being pressured into this by my parents? Or
- Is it for marital purposes? Or
- Am I so obsessed with this fella/girl that I think I would lose him/her if I don’t go into a relationship with her now?
Let’s get your thought and see where we have gone wrong and how to redress our steps.
To be continued…
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For anyone who wishes to enter into any kind of relationship, these questions and more are worth asking yourself, so that you can get prepared for what is ahead of you.
Don't just jump into any relationship because your "head" feels it, but let yourself be guided.