I have been locked out of marriage

How would you feel if you are locked out of your House and your marriage without notice? It’s so painful that relationships turn sour, but to be locked out of your home is the height of injustice.

A woman found herself in deep waters as she returned from her Business Trip. She found out that she has been locked out by her estranged husband. Now she seeks help.

Why must I be locked out?

I am an avid follower of the activities of the Parliament. Please keep it up. You are doing a great job. There was a mutual agreement between me and my husband to seek for divorce.

I travelled to China 5 days ago, came back yesterday and was locked out of the house with all my belongings inside the house. The man has refused to listen to all the people who tried to intervene. It may interest you to know that the 5 cars in the compound were purchased by me, including the house itself.

I also have my gold jewellery, land documents etc. inside the house.

• Now my question is: What do you advise that I do?
• Do I involve Social Welfare? My husband has refused to work in the last 7 years!
• I have been the breadwinner, yet he accuses me of adultery.

It is bad enough to be the one doing all the jobs and making all the earnings, yet getting no appreciation from her husband.

How else would Families and relationships blossom if the fear of losing your home through divorce leads to your wife being locked out of her home?

It would have been more mature to talk things over than adopting the “Locked out” situation, as this can worsen any chances the man has to regain control of his home.

What is your candid advise on the above locked out situation?

Post by Chukwuneta Oby